Though Leslie and I take good care of our girls, there
are times when they worry that we are going to deprive them of something. For example, I normally have breakfast set
out for them every morning, but there are times when I do not. When this happens, one or the both of them will
panic. They are little creatures of
habit and get worried when breakfast is not ready when they wake up and will
say, “Dad, what about breakfast? Did you
forget about breakfast? Are we not going
to have breakfast?” And at times I reassure
them that breakfast is on the way, but there are other times I will try and
reason with them by pointing them to the past.
I will say, “In your few short years you have been
alive, has there ever been a time when mommy or daddy has not fed you? Have we ever withheld food from you?” And of course they will say, “NO.” Then I will tell them, “If that is the case—if
we have fed you day after day, breakfast, lunch and dinner; what makes you
think that today will be any different?”
At times, to keep my girls from worrying in the present, I will remind
them of the past.